Men from Mars, Women from Venus?

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Hello everyone! How are you? I hope you guys have a nice weekend 😊

Do you know Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus?

Have you read this book? Yeah, I will tell you about John Gray's book.

"Man are from Mars, Women are from Venus" it's figurative that explain men and women are from different planet and very different in all things. They was born with differences, what the difference between men and women?

Man has instincs that he want to take care himself. If he has some problems , he will overcome it by himself. Because he want his ability is recognized. Even if any people give him solution for his problem without being asked, he will take offense because he feel unable to finish it by himself. That's why he become non communicative if he get some problems. He choose too silent, overcome, and  find solution by himself. While woman has instincs that she is care with other people. If she has some problems, she will talk with her friends, her mother, and even she will share her feeling in sosial media 😁. Ya, she just want the others hear her feeling because actually woman don't want solution for her problems.

Women use their feeling and intuition. Sometimes, women tend to panic and negative thinking if their partner have not give tidings in a day. That's why women are jealous easily rather than men, although there are men  who is jealous easily but most of them tend to hide their feeling because of the prestige.

Do you ever asked the opinion of the man? Ya, he will give you answer with simple word, because man likes to speak to the points. Usually he likes to speak something that have important points. Sometimes, woman already talk too much but his answer just "oh, yeah" "oh, I see" arrrghh very annoying! While woman likes to talk anything. She likes to talk about things that are important until things that are not important (gossip) 😂.

Men and women have a different style of communication. Women want men understand her language and men tried to understand women's language through his language.

In relationship, men and women have different emosional needs. Women need caring, understanding, respect, devotion, and validation. While men need trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, and approval. Men actually dislike if not trusted, they feel uncomfortable if women began to arrange his life. Because they feel that their power diminish. Your partner also wants to be free, he's got a life of its own, so don't restrain him. And women like her partner respect with them. They want other people understanding their feeling.

That's why there is term "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". They are very different. They have each language and have each way to respons anything. So, they should understand, respect, and forgive each other for better relationship.

That's about Men vs Women, I hope you enjoy and like to read this post 😊

If you have some argument about Mars-Venus, please write on comment column.

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